Issue #61: Decide Now: Own Your Future

We pay prices for waiting, for indecision, for letting life decide for us.

It’s the passive move of many a Nice Guy - hoping others will decide for us - or the decision is taken out of our hands - so we don't have to be responsible for the consequences.

If it goes wrong, we can’t be to blame.

What this also means is that you miss out on the benefits of making decisions for your life.

And you suffer the insufferable consequences of feeling like you have no agency in your life.

Like that eternal leaf in the wind. Blown any way the wind - an the world - wants to blow you.

Never grounded. Never solid. Never at peace.

So easily moved from centre. So easily fucked with.

Here is a powerful question to ask yourself if you are willing to face yourself honestly:

What is waiting costing you?

What prices are you paying across the board in your life for waiting, for hoping a decision will appear, hoping confidence will magically hit you?

Hesitation, waiting, not deciding - these are still decisions.

It’s deciding to let life choose for you.

Taking charge of your life needs you to make decisions - and then make them work.

Hesitation is a missed opportunity to grow stronger, build confidence, and live with purpose.

What if I make the wrong decision?

I hear from guys all the time that struggle to make decisions.

They get caught in ‘worst-case scenarios’ thinking - and they freeze in place; indecisive.

But think about it - how often do the worst-case scenarios happen? How often does it go way better than you dreaded it would?

The idea of sitting in limbo to avoid the risk of making a ‘wrong’ decision is usually a far worse decision.

This is where I like to use the philosophy: “make the decision, then make it right.”

That doesn’t mean just choosing things blindly with no consideration. It means don’t sit in indecision and let fear and the worst-case scenario win.

Detail the information you have and need. Connect to the long-term vision, purpose, or benefit, and then choose. Move. Learn. Adapt; make it right.

You become decisive by making decisions and then making them right for you.

Either it works like you wanted, or you learn and adapt.

Indecisiveness breeds more indecisiveness.

Decisiveness breeds more decisiveness.

An Opportunity for you:

Right now, you can make a bold decision for your future - Join the UNFUCKWITHABLE MAN Daily Membership for just $14/month (NZD).

This Early Legend price ends soon, and it won’t come back.

If you’re ready to take ownership of your journey, the time to act is now.

As a reminder, these daily emails are coming to an end.

No more daily punch of education, insight, motivation, and challenge.

Where they will continue is inside this new Daily Membership - where we will be curating the best content and putting it together in a way that sets out lessons, exercises, challenges, encouragement and accountability to help YOU step into the growth you need and become your best - to become Unfuckwithable.

Will it be hectic - with an email a day?

No.

Our aim in creating and curating this daily membership is to it provide you with one thing to work on each week.

One.

And the daily emails will help support it, make sense of it, and ensure you implement and take action on it.

Sure, we’ll add things as we go. But simple and doable wins.

But the best equation for growth:

(Courageous + Simple)Action + Consistently across time = Success

We climb a mountain one unsexy step at a time.

Some steps are harder than others. But when you have guides, mates, tools - by fuck, is it easier!

Not only will you get daily tailored emails but a supportive community of dudes like you AND a Live Q&A coaching call each month with me (plus many other resources and tools within my library).

For only NZD $14/month - this is the investment of the year in terms the potential return when you do the work and lean into being held accountable to it.

Xmas is in two days - this deal with end 5pm on December 24th

Make this Christmas a great one by setting up 2025 in a powerful decision.

Have a solid day.

- Mike

Have a solid day.

- Mike