Finally become the partner
Even if nothing’s overly wrong right now (but it could be better – and you know it) and you don’t wanna pretend to be some safe, curated, safe, hopefully-won’t-be-rejected version of yourself
Here’s why anything short of a fun, fiery & connected relationship is costing you both your HAPPY future together
(and no, this isn’t some sleazy pickup artistry bullshit or spiritual ~journey~ to self enlightenment)
I’ll give it to you straight, mate. We’re men (not mind readers).
Yet, between wiping the sleep from your eyes to pouring your morning coffee, you’re already thinking of her (you maybe even have her cuppa ready). Because you really fucken care about her.
That’s why you hate frustrating fights that go around in circles. You get tongue-tied, avoid conflict, overthink. She says one thing, does another – why? You react, shut off, or appease.
Conversations now tend to be at surface level. You’re hiding parts of yourself. You don’t feel appreciated (does she? Who knows). And you’re not challenging each other any more… apart from on the right way to stack the dishwasher, amiright?
You’re both kinda on edge, treating each other like the enemy (or simply like housemates). Not to mention the plummeting sex life. You find yourself fighting against her, not for her. And you get the feeling she’s resenting doing all the emotional work (disconnection has its consequences).
Plus, saying what you really think too often leaves you in the dog house. So, the thought of opening up comes with the same side effects as eating too much bad Mexican food (need me to spell that one out: literally shitting your pants).
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You don’t wanna let her down.
But also, how the fuck
do you become a better partner without just becoming a yes-man nice-guy (or somehow not having to work so much)!?
If you know...
If you know…
Then keep reading…
Because what comes next could easily be the most relationship-enhancing moment you look back on 4 weeks (and 4 years) from now, when you both:
…‘get’ each other
…are in a secure relationship with a clear future
…and have better intimacy, less conflict and a closer connection.
That feels exciting AF.
For a while there – you felt loved, understood, appreciated, important, deeply connected…
But things haven’t stayed that way, have they?
Spending every moment together to now scrolling on the toilet longer
Connecting easily to now staying silent or appeasing
Challenging conversations are now surface-level errand chats about life admin
Late night chats have snowballed into stupid fights outta nowhere…
Or the silent treatment (…which can be way fucken worse, right?)
Your life on pause
Even though you want to get
back to who you two were
you have no fucken idea how things
(slowly) got to this point…
…things are okay, but could be WAY better
Because at the moment, you find yourself:
- Trying to fix her stuff (yet getting in trouble for it)
- Being mothered or ignored by her (not desired by her)
- Letting her down (which makes you feel like shit)
- Not giving her what she wants
- Stuck in this cycle of the same old frustrations
- Treating each other like ‘the enemy’ (fighting to be right)
- Feeling unheard and shutting down – what’s the point?
- Basically begging for sex and she’s not interested (or avoiding asking, because that rejection stings like a MF)
- Bored, lonely, disconnected, complacent, harsh…
Excuse the Black Eyed Peas reference, but where’s the love, y’all?
I’m gonna come right out and say it, dude:
“The major benefit I’ve received is coming face-to-face with the communication mistakes I’ve been making for years. For example, thinking and reacting logically, when she just needs someone to listen, not to fix.”
“This has allowed me to start on a journey of breaking the cycle that seems to continue in every relationship.”
“Men need this class if they want to take their relationship to the next level. We get stuck in cycles as well as bogged down with the daily standard routine. This needs to change so we can unlock the true potential of our relationships and with Mike’s help, you can begin to do the work to better understand yourself as well as invite your partner into the work.”
I’m a man coach, presenter, podcaster, author and the creator of The Better Partner Project. Plus I give a mean hug.
When I’m not kicking back with my wife, Nardia, daughter, Kaia, playing Nintendo ‘64 Goldeneye or hunting for the coldest beer in NZ or Australia…
I’m supporting men like you to get past your shit, step into who you can become, and fighting for your potential so you can get more from the everyday.
After a decade of studying the psychology of men and women, helping hundreds of men create epic relationships, and surviving a brutal breakup (more on that soon)…
I’m so fucken excited you’re here.
Becoming the partner you want to be (and the one your partner deserves), with a relationship others aspire to have, is actually easy
You’ve made it this far because you already know
that strengthening your relationship is the right move for you two.
- Know what you want & exactly how to ask for it
- Get what’s on her mind, before she opens her mouth
- Rekindle your spark into a blaze of passion, trust, connection, sex, security, softness and safety
- Are respected, seen as dependable and recognised for your contributions to the relationship
- Wake up next to your partner (who is securely your best friend too), who challenges you to be the best version of you and whom you’re fiercely attracted to…
THE BETTER PARTNER PROJECT
The Better Partner project is the first 4-step course in relationships for men that combines done-for-you psychology, easy actions and communication tools to help you finally become the partner you’ve always wanted to be (and that she deserves). Without guesswork, confusion or pretending to be someone you’re not.
From just 2 hours a week – immediate access!
3 ways The Better Partner Project
strengthens your relationship
Instead of listening to podcasts, without accountability. Or reading books, without support.
Or BS courses with modules that don’t relate to what you need. The Better Partner Program
is simple yet deep, fast yet comprehensive, actionable and offers real-time answers to all your questions.
Meaning, you’ll leave with the exact knowledge, set of actions and plan you need to finally
become the most confident, clear and decisive partner you can be.
Done with seeking validation through work, body, performance? Insecure about money, relationships, who the fuck you are?
Fed up with making the same mistakes? Of trying to do it all on your own? Feel like while it’s scary, support is the answer?
Do it for you. And for her.
Be your best – Give your best.
Inside, you’ll find
Understand Her Mind
Build a solid relationship foundation and confidently ‘get’ each other
The main reason you feel disconnected and frustrated is because you’re guessing the problem, which leads to fights about pointless shit and not feeling heard.
After this module you’ll understand her psychology in easy steps, so you can connect, feel like equals who appreciate each other’s processes, make couple decisions with ease and turn conflict into an opportunity to connect.
- Uncover her psychology in easy steps
- Discover the type of relationship you want
- Get rock solid on what being an effective partner means
- Use differences in men & women as your secret weapon
OUTCOME: Understand her & get on the same page
Dig Deep on You
Uncover what you want from a relationship, and how to finally get it
Creating your ideal relationship without knowing exactly what you want (and why) is like
building a house without a plan. Doable, but you’re almost guaranteed to have leaks.
When you’ve finished this module you’ll figure out what you want, understand why things haven’t worked in the past, and learn how to build a strong, loving and connected relationship while keeping your freedom.
- Identify why you choose the partners you do
- Get your reaction and partnership style
- Dig into what being a better partner looks like for YOU
- Make sense of shit you do that frustrates you and her
OUTCOME: Understand you & map out the relationship you want
Communicate without Cockblocking
Master speaking the same language and finally connect with depth
You hold things in because you’re scared of hurting her, or of being rejected. Then either you bury this shit down and close off or it builds up and explodes like a volcano of frustration. It comes out all wrong and leaves you in the dog house.
Finish this module and finally know how to have open, honest and easy communication that actually brings progress and watch your partner’s eyes light up as you start leading conflict with a level head. Not only will your dick not shrivel up when you open up, but she’ll think the sun shines out of it. True story.
- Relate to each other and truly connect
- Ace conflict so arguments never go around in circles
- Understand how to navigate making each other feel heard
- Explore communication basics so you can speak the same language
OUTCOME: Master communication (without cockblocking yourself)
Activate Your Action Plan
Design a quick action plan for immediate results
You’ve put off becoming a better partner because it’s impossible to know where to start. Here’s your accountability, support and set of clear steps to actually make it happen this time.
Complete this module to finally leave all those niggles and worries at the door. No longer feel like you’re letting her down – instead, enjoy a safe, secure, fun and easy relationship with better understanding and communication for better trust, dependability, conflict, connection, intimacy and sex as the new version of you – the partner you’ve both wanted you to be.
You’ll do this by:
- Creating a clear action plan
- Introducing ease, fun and excitement to your relationship
- Locking in your personal and relationship values and vision
- Defining your relationship requirements, deals and agreements
OUTCOME: Clear (easy) actions for remarkable results
Finally become a better partner
Enrol now & score these
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For less than $11 a day (across the 4-week course), master the invaluable tools to grow your relationship
(helluva lot cheaper than buying your way outta the dog house)
THE ROCK SOLID GUARANTEE
14-Day Money-Back Guarantee
My team and I believe so heavily in your results from using this method that we want to make your decision an easy and confident ‘yes’.
Enter: The Rock Solid Guarantee.
Simply complete and action the first two modules/weeks (1 – Understand Her Mind and 2 – Dig Deep on You) of The Better Partner Project within 14 days.
After completing these modules and having answered your workbook Qs, if you still don’t feel you have the understanding, confidence and powerful action steps needed to become a better partner (without the guesswork, going around in circles or cockblocking yourself when you open up)…
Simply email our support team on firstname.lastname@example.org with your completed Figuring Your Shit Out workbook, and we’ll hit delete on this whole becoming-a-better-partner thing.
Why not just give your money back without conditions? Because this works WHEN you work it. You’re investing for results and results will come only when you do the work. Show me you can apply yourself and we’ll either see results or for some odd reason you don’t – your money comes straight back!
The way I see it, right now
you have 2 options:
Keep going the way you are now.
Drifting further from your partner, feeling less satisfied, knowing you could both be enjoying more fun, ease and intimacy… but settling for less.
GOT A QUESTION? WE HAVE ANSWERS
Most frequent questions and answers
Of course you can. Ultimately, the content is yours to consume and implement when you are ready and able. Be it in a few days, weeks, or months from now. You have unlimited lifetime access.
Shit yes, you can! Click below to enrol and get started now! Every module is on the other side, ready for you to dig into immediately.